MY MOST POWERFUL CLITORAL STIMULATION TECHNIQUES
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Now it’s time to learn the clitoral stimulation techniques that you can use during sex.
FIRST, YOU NEED TO GET YOUR MAN ON BOARD
All of these clitoral stimulation techniques work incredibly well when properly performed, but if your man is not in tune with you and your body, then you’re not going to get much out of them.
That’s why you need to talk to him and let him know what you need and what buttons to press to get you off. Otherwise, he will just be guessing what he should be doing. And if he’s focusing on the pleasure of penetration and thrusting, you could wind up with no clitoral stimulation or orgasm based on your clit position and size . This means no orgasm for you.
If you are having trouble talking to your man about what you want and need in the bedroom, then my advice is to check out our guide on sexual communication here.
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING
The amount of pressure you apply to your clit is almost always the most important aspect when it comes to pleasurable clitoral stimulation during sex. If your man can’t apply enough pressure, then you’re not going to feel much sensation.
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Always keep this in mind when changing into a new sex position. And if you’re looking for new positions to try out, you’ll find over 100 different positions to choose from here.
The most effective clitoral stimulation technique you can use is what I like to call The Grind.
At a basic level, you will be grinding your clitoris against your man, but there are large number of variations you can incorporate depending on your personal preferences:
The Up & Down – Assuming you are in the Missionary position, your man simply needs to press the area above the base of his penis (this area includes his pubic bone) into your clit and grind upwards and downwards as he is thrusting in and out.
Side To Side – A variation of this is for him to switch to grinding from side to side on your clitoris instead of thrusting. So he needs to stay as deep as possible while grinding from right to left to right to left and so on.
Circular – Another variation is for him to grind in a circular motion on your clit while remaining as deep in you as possible. Doing this has the added benefit of making his penis move around and stimulate all your vaginal walls as he does it.
I’ve mentioned that your man should be doing all the grinding, but in reality, you can do it too, or you can both do it simultaneously. Experiment and see what you enjoy most.
This next clitoral stimulation technique works best in girl on top sex positions like Cowgirl or the Man Missionary. While you are on top of your man, and he is lying down, he needs to lower his hand down the centerline of his stomach with his palm on his belly. When he reaches his penis, he needs to spread his fingers apart so that he makes the Vulcan “V” sign like in the illustration above.
So his baby and ring finger will be on one side of his penis, while his index and middle finger will be on the other side.
The clitoris is the women most sensitive spot. It is the “Holy Grail” of orgasms. With about 8.000 nerve endings, the clit’s only function is to give pleasure to the woman. Now, it is definitely the orgasm spot and there’s more than just licking it.
So… Are you stimulating her clitoris the right way???
Most women respond well to clitoral stimulation outside the clitoral hood; but, the clitoris itself is very sensitive to handle direct stimulation, and the most common mistake than men do is to reach directly for it which can be really uncomfortable for the woman.
You must warm up her vulva and her clit before apply direct stimulation.
Instead of stimulate the clitoral head directly, an outside approach works best. After all the clitoral hood is designed to protect the clitoral head.
There’s no need to dig with your tongue underneath the hood to look for the head, that will only cause discomfort.
Therefore, due to the clitoris sensitivity, it is very important for you to learn how to stimulate it properly to give lots of pleasure to your woman and never pain.
Any of the following clitoral stimulation techniques can be performed with the tongue focused on the outside of the clitoral hood, with the exception of the upwards stroke which you will use once her clit is ready for that kind of stimulation.
Ready?… O.k, let’s check some Clitoris Stimulation Techniques:
Clitoris Stimulation Techniques
This move is very easy, and feels great to her. Position your tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move from side to side as though you were sweeping a floor.
Start with slow strokes and gradually increase speed.
This one is one of the best clitoris stimulation techniques! Simply position your tongue either to the left or right of your partner’s clitoris, and move it in circles around the clitoris only, either in a clockwise or counter-clockwise motion.
This movement feels great because it stimulates the clitoral hood, as well as, some of the cilt head when you tongue is passing by the 6:00 position on the “clock” of the clitoris.
A soft tongue works best at the beginning when your partner is getting warmed up, then faster strokes with more pressure are great when she’s close to orgasm.
This move is to be performed when she’s already aroused because suction can put too much pressure in her sensitive clit on a early stage.
You’ll want to take her clitoris gently into your mouth and lightly suck on it – much as though you were drinking from a straw.
Remember: Don’t get too rough with this move!
This movement in particular is best done with extreme care – meaning soft and slow!
Pay attention to your partner’s reaction to this move. If she seems to be shrinking away before her orgasm, lighten up on the suction or discontinue sucking her clitoris at all.
Most women enjoy this move, but some others not. Always make sure your woman is comfortable.
Do you know your ABC’S? This may sounds funny to you but this one is one of the best moves!
Do you remember how I told you that drawing circles with your tongue feels amazing? Well, just imagine how does she feel when you draw a variety of different shapes other than just a circle? Basically, it feels more than amazing!
What you need to do is simply position your tongue (a pointed one works best here) either to the side or at the top of her clitoris, and begin using your tongue to draw your ABC’s.
You can vary this technique using numbers, or even writing sexy or romantic stuff that she can maybe guess. Get creative on this one!
The ABC stroke is as powerful move because it gives just the right amount of contact to both the clitoral hood and the clitoral head while mixing things up. You provide perfect contact, an excellent rhythm and variety because no two strokes are exactly the same.
Here, you place your mouth over your partner’s clitoris and gently suck it in and out of your mouth. Be careful to not suck too hard.
This move is best used when your partner is already warmed up and is fairly close to orgasm.
Using it too early may cause rejection, and also it may be too strong of a sensation to use during an orgasm.
As a variation, you can use the tip of your tongue to gently flick her clitoris while it is in your mouth – release her clitoris and repeat. Vary this move with just the suction move and you’ll soon have your honey in orgasm heaven.
6. The messy eater
Basically, this move encompasses all the other techniques (such as tongue circles or gentle vacuum suction) but in somewhat of a “smorgasbord” fashion.
You’ll want to cradle both legs in your arms (her thigh will be in the crease of your elbow and your hands should come up around and rest on her hip bones) and… Basically, dig in!
Be gentle with the clitoris though, and make sure you partner really likes this one because some women can get turn off by this kind of “hungry attack” 😉
There you go, 6 clitoris stimulation techniques to really stimulate her clitoris properly.
Seriously guys, if you master how to give her oral orgasms, she will not only beg you for more but she will please you back any way you want!… So, want more blow jobs?? Go down on her, rock her world! And she’ll be more than happy to go down on you!